Real women. Real stories.
Honest conversations. Different perspectives.

For a long time, I thought success was something you could measure—by how hard you worked, what you accomplished, and how much money you made. As a recovering workaholic, I spent a lot of years tying my value to all three. It got me promotions, but it didn't get me happiness.

I grew up riding horses, and that love eventually led me to working as an equestrian performer. That experience became a huge stepping stone in my life and taught me confidence, discipline, resilience, and so much about who I was capable of becoming.

But some of the biggest lessons in my life have come from the things I never planned for.

I've learned healthier ways to manage postpartum depression, anxiety attacks, and ADHD. I've learned to give myself grace, slow down, and understand that my productivity does not determine my worth.

Today, I work from home so I can be with my son. It's been a huge lifestyle change—especially financially—but it has completely changed the way I think about happiness and success. I get to be present for a life that I genuinely love, surrounded by my husband, my son, our dogs, and an incredible chosen family that has become one of the most important parts of my support system.

Would I change it? No.

Would I like to do it with more money? I mean... obvi. 💁🏼‍♀️🤷🏼‍♀️😂

I'm also rediscovering the creative side of myself. Creating is my true passion, and I'm learning how to make space for it in my everyday life simply because it makes me happy.

And all of that brings me to The Boss B!tch Project.

I helped start this project because there have been so many moments in my life when I desperately needed someone to look at me and say, “It's okay. Me too.”

Not give me advice. Not try to fix me. Not tell me what I should be doing.

Just see me.

I know what it feels like to wonder if you're the only person struggling with something. To look around and think everyone else has somehow figured out the secret to life that you missed. To feel alone in a room full of people.

I don't want other women to feel that way.

The Boss B!tch Project is about creating a space where we can be real about the things we're going through—the good, the bad, the embarrassing, the complicated, and all the things we usually keep to ourselves.

I don't have all the answers, and I don't want to pretend that I do.

Sometimes I just want to be the person who looks at another woman and says:

“It's okay. Me too. You're not alone.”

Because sometimes, that's exactly what we need.

I’m a Florida girl, a mom of two girls, a former banker, a single mom, and a woman who has learned the hard way that being “good” doesn’t always get you the life you thought you were promised.

For years, I thought being a good wife, good mom, and good woman meant keeping the peace, giving more, needing less, and doing whatever it took to hold everything together.

I did that shit really well.

Until I realized I was disappearing inside of it.

Divorce, motherhood, co-parenting, therapy, and some brutally honest conversations with women I love forced me to start questioning the rules I had spent my life following.

Because there is only so much one-way-street BS a woman can take before she starts asking:

Who made these rules—and who are they really serving?

I don’t have all the answers. I’m still figuring out who I am and who I’m becoming.

But I know I don’t want to abandon myself again, and I sure as hell don’t want my daughters growing up believing they have to abandon themselves either.

That’s why I’m here.

The Boss B!tch Project is about having the conversations we were taught to avoid, questioning what no longer serves us, and figuring out what comes next—together.

Because maybe being a good woman was never supposed to mean making yourself smaller, quieter, easier, or more convenient for everyone else.

Maybe we were never meant to be tamed.

Sometimes change takes a giant leap.

Sometimes it takes 10 seconds of bravery.

And sometimes it starts with simply saying, “Wait a damn minute…”

Protect your spark.

And remember: all parts of you are beautiful—even the messy parts.

Born and raised in Southeast Florida, I now call East Tennessee home.

My path here has been anything but straight. I was one of the OG ADD kids, back before anyone really knew what that meant, and school was definitely not my favorite thing. It took me a while to realize I wasn't bad at learning—I just needed to figure out how I learned.

Years later, I went back to finish my degree and somehow ended up earning a Master's in Organizational Leadership. To be completely honest, when I started, I thought “Organizational Leadership” meant I was going to learn how to be more organized.

I was very wrong.

What I found instead was something I didn't expect—a real interest in leadership, people, and how much of a difference it can make when someone helps us see the potential in ourselves.

Recently, life handed me a few really difficult years when I wasn't even sure what I was dealing with or how to find my way back to myself. One of the things that carried me through was my tribe—the friends I could talk to, laugh with, cry with, vent to, and borrow a little strength from when mine was running low.

Those years taught me how important it is to have people you can be completely real with—and made me realize that not every woman has that.

A random conversation with Melissa brought up our long-running idea of having our own talk show, and the seed for The Boss B!tch Project was planted.

What followed was a year of dreaming, researching, quitting, restarting, and wondering whether I was capable.

Then I finally brought the idea to Kimberly and Melissa.

They said yes.

And here we are.

I'm still figuring things out, too.

That's kind of the point.

Welcome. I'm glad you found us.